Everyone is a Stranger!
Finding the right friend group in college is hard and being an introvert can make it even harder. However, I speak from first hand experience when I say you can absolutely find lifelong friendships in college as an introvert. The biggest thing to remember is that everyone’s in the same boat. You are no different than the person across the hall and everyone is a stranger. Here are some tips to make your transition easier.
Take Advantage of the First Week
Don’t underestimate the power of the first week of college. This is your opportunity to meet as many people as possible. Treat it as a trial run. Practice saying hi to everyone, holding conversations and gaining confidence. The stakes are low here because guess what!? Wisconsin is a HUGE school. If you embarrass yourself, chances are you’ll never see that person again. I met one of my best friends by just going up and saying hi!
Go Thought Recruitment
Rushing may not be for everyone, but if you’re on the fence about it DO IT!! Worst case scenario you drop and life goes on. Best case scenario you meet your best friends and gain a lifetime of connections and opportunities. As a sorority member myself, I must warn you that joining a sorority does not instantly equal friendships. Go to events, put in effort and I promise it pays off, it definitely did for me!
(Almost) Always say YES
Lastly, remember to say yes. “Want to go to Gordan together?” SAY YES! “Wanna get ice cream at Mem U?” SAY YES! Strong friendships form from repeated exposure. The more time you can spend with someone the better! It may feel awkward at first, but I promise you the more time that passes the more that awkwardness is replaced with genuine and meaningful connections.
